Monika Momeni - She is strong

"I WOULD SAY THE BIGGEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE IS THAT COMMUNICATION & SETTING BOUNDARIES ARE KEY."

Monika Momeni, the Owner and Operator of Cocktails & Canapés, Vancouver’s chef driven premium caterer has firmly cemented her reputation in Western Canada as a trendsetter and leader in the catering industry. Her unique brand of customized hospitality experiences and catering services is truly exceptional, immersive, and highly innovative. She has a loving partner and two beautiful kids who are a source of motivation and a driving force behind her ambitions.

What they think:

Q. Do you believe that having a supportive partner can contribute to a person’s success? In your opinion, what qualities or characteristics make a woman a strong and supportive partner?

A supportive partner can definitely play a huge role in someone’s success! Having someone by your side that believes in you, encourages you, and provides emotional support can make all the difference. I believe that someone who is understanding, patient, and willing to listen and offer help when needed is what makes a great support system. My partner and I constantly support one another, which in turn has allowed us both to have our own successful and separate businesses. Cocktails & Canapés (my business) has established itself as one of Vancouver’s Premier Catering companies. I believe that I was able to push my business to this success because of the support system I have around me.

Q. How do you define being a strong woman in the context of supporting a successful man?

Being a strong woman means being confident, independent, and having your own goals and aspirations. It is about being a partner who uplifts and encourages, while also maintaining your own identity. It is a balance of supporting your partner’s success while also nurturing your own growth.

Q. How do you prioritize self-care and personal growth while also being a pillar of support for the man in your life?

Balancing self-care, personal growth & being a support system can definitely be challenging but it is important to set boundaries and communicate your needs to ensure that both sides of the relationship stays nurtured. I believe that taking care of yourself allows you to be a better support system and that a strong partnership is built on mutual support. As much as I am there for the man in my life, he should also be there for me when I need it. It is really all about finding that sweet spot where you can thrive individually and as a team.

Q. How important do you think it is for successful individuals to acknowledge and appreciate the support they receive from their partners?

I think it is extremely important as gratitude goes a long way in all relationships. Successful individuals should definitely acknowledge and appreciate the support they receive from their partners as it shows love & mutual respect, which in turn I believe strengthens the bond between two people. The stronger this bond grows, the more two people can continue to build & lift each other up.

Q. What advice would you give to other women who are in a similar position of supporting a successful man while also pursuing their own goals and ambitions?

I would say the biggest advice I can give is that communication & setting boundaries are key. Talk openly with your partner about your goals and do not be afraid to open up and share your ambitions. When you open up with each other about your goals & ambitions, you feel even more inspired to chase after what you want. Having a partner who is equally as ambitious & successful, keeps you motivated and driven for more. However, it is also important to set your boundaries with each other and allow for a balance of self-care, personal space and growth. Two people can either grow together or grow apart.