KUDOS TO MY “FATHER”, YOUR “DAD” AND EVERY “PAPA”...

May be a father is a poor man all through his life but a father will try to work to exhaustion to give his children every richness of the world possible.\n\nHis intentions are beyond an iota of doubt. A father is a person who brings all the comfort, pleasure and money for all the activities of daily living (ADL) to his children by working very hard and teaching every beautiful thing of the world so as to hammer out, as you grow up, the best human being out of your personality. A father is in his happiest state of mind when he watches his son/daughter growing as responsible as he has always wanted. A father never feel defeated when he experience tat his son is outsmarting him in any walk of life.\n\nFathers’ Day in Canada:\n\nFather’s Day is celebrated worldwide to appreciate the contribution that fathers and father figures make to the lives of their dear children. This day applauds fatherhood and male parenting. Although it is celebrated on a variety of dates worldwide, many countries observe this day on the third Sunday in June including Canada. Father’s Day is celebrating its 18th anniversary this year on June 17, in Canada.\n\nA Father always expects from his children ut infra:\n\nBe nice to Others: A father always wants his children to behave very well with others because that is the reflection of how a person has been brought up. Being good to everyone will surely make your father be at cloud nine and feel satisfied.\n\nDeal elders with courtesy:\n\nEvery father wants that his children know how to behave in a courteous way with people elder to them. And, if you can make your elders feel nice and comfortable with your behavior then your father is undoubtedly going to feel proud of you.\n\n\n\nManage things the way your father used to do:\n\nAll your childhood you have seen your father managing every occasion in the best sensible way and he must have expected his children to be good at managing life ,by involving his spouse in the most efficient way. Learn from the mistakes your father did. Learn from bad decisions he made. Do not vicariously criticize him unequivocally, as may be, those decisions were taken in the corridor of uncertainly. It hurts a father when the kids squarely blames him.\n\nBalance parents, work and Family:\n\nOur main goal , in this world, is to be in a state of selfactualization i.e. to be blissfully happy and in fact everything that we do is just to make ourselves happy. A father has always maintain a kind of soothing balance between work and family and he would be a proud father if you can prove to be a chip of the old block.\n

AS I compose myself to\npen this article, being a very\nemotional subject, I could not\nhelp rummaging through my\ntween years when my reverend\nfather took initial control of me to\nunderstand the nuances of mother\ntongue i.e. Punjabi and inculcate\nin me the good daily habits –\nalong with my mum - which are\nthe sheer basis of my personality\neven now. Whatever I am today, I\nowe my living to my parents. The\nbest Thank You, we can give to our\ndads on Fathers’ Day is to make\nthem feel proud of you by virtue of\nyour commendable deeds. A father\ndoes not like that any one beat him\nby being better, but rejoices when\nhis own children do better than him\nas likes to be known in the society\nas a father of his precocious and\nprodigious sons or daughters

\nLove and respect your Mother and siblings;\n\nA father will love you and be proud of you because you are being respectful, loving and caring towards your mother and siblings. So, learn to be good to your mother as your father has been all these years, and he will be proud to have a son/daughter like you.\n

Like every dad, my dad was like a coconut,\nhe was hard on me from outside so that I can\nget good grades and behave well, but he was\nvery sweet from inside. During my tween\nand teen years, I used to think, my dad\nshould be sweeter to me like my mum, yet\nnow I feel he was always right. Many times,\non my mild disapproval on certain issues,\nhe used to say that, I quote” When you will\nbecome a dad, you will understand that I\nam right. Now I feel his advice was hundred\nper cent correct. Though he happened to be\none of the poorest fathers financially, yet he\nleft his children the richest inheritance of\nhow to work, behave, live and lead life in this\nmaterialistic world.

\nBelieve in your Father’s experience and Decisions there of:\n\nOften times children start overlooking their father’s decision after becoming independent, but that’s one of the biggest discouragement any father feels deep inside his heart. Before starting any big project, ask your father, he will feel happy about it and you will gain out of it.\n\nLove and guide your kids:\n\nA father will respect and appreciate watching his children being loving and affectionate towards their kids. He has always done everything to make his children happy and now he will be a proud father to see his children performing as a responsible and caring father.\n\nWork dedicatedly towards your goal:\n\nAfter becoming a father our achievements influence our children and they successfully make forays in their chosen field and register even better results. A father love watching his son/daughter escalate, rung after rung , up the ladder in life and working succeesively in the right direction of achieving his/her goals.\n

WHEN I delve through my childhood, and\nas a father- nowadays- to my children\nthings are pole apart. Time has changed\nand so the kids. Children should always\nremember that their blessed, reverend and\nalive “Parents” are not fore ever. Those\nwho have their parents on their side are\nextremely fortunate and blessed ones. And\nthose parents who are breathing in the same\ncity and living separately-against their willare\nindeed unfortunate ones when kids are\nnot on speaking terms with them. My whole\nbody goes into trepidation, when I see some\nparents or single parent living alone or in\nlong term facilities, sans money- haplessly\nand hopelessly- waiting vicariously for the\ndeath to happen

\nBe a chip of the old block:\n\nAs an adult ,take care of the family as your father set an example. Now that you are grown up, your father will be more than relaxed to see you taking the responsibility of the family. All through his life, your father has taken care of the family- with your mum- and now it is your turn to responsibly take care of everyone in the family. Your father will be more than happy about that\n

A father is a person who brings all the\nhappiness to his children by working hard\nand teaching every beautiful thing of the\nWorld. And, when they grow up, expects\nthem to bring about one of the best human\nbeings out of their personality, because\nthey are known in the society to be sons/\ndaughters of so and so. A father is in his\nhappiest state of mind when he watches his\nson/daughter find his/ her moorings and the\nmission of life is accomplished

\nThings that melt a Dad’s Heart:\n\nA father is a picture of love so strong, who carefully, silently and consciously steer the family ship and intervene and interfere with his better half to give shape to the career of his lovely children. And, these are just my words that are a shadow of my thankful heart and I will my deeds utter those words of gratitude sometimes in the near future.\n\nA Thank you note for the dad:\n\nThank you, dad,\n\nfor being my father, for teaching those extremely helpful lessons of life, for making me strong at every stage of my life, for being with me in every thick and thin as day follows night.\n\nThank you, dad,\n\nas I can visualize the mental picture of all that you have been doing and all that you are doing and believe in me dad; all these sacrifices that you have done are never going to go in vain. I carry your DNA. By being successful, I will bring about the happiness that a soul like you [ every dad] deserves.\n\nThank You, dad,\n\nfor holding my little hands and take me to the divine connection to the Almighty and finding out everything about Him. It is you who instilled that faith in the Almighty that has made me feel strong, optimistic and confident every day. Thank you, dad, to make me feel happy and joyous for being successful in bringing about the best version of their children with all the sacrifices you have done all through their lives.\n\nA father is someone who creates a strong building block for kids, life and he is the one who teaches us all the basic lessons of life. Fathers’ day is around the corner and it is going to be celebrated on 17th of June. It would be a fabulously great idea to write some Father’s Day notes on this special day and let him know that the most precious thing that surrounds you is his love\n\nFather vs Mother\n\nMothers reading this article may be feeling little jealous now for lopsided view of mine in favor of a father but a mother scores better IN THE HEARTS OF THEIR CHILDREN though exceptions are there The role of a father has never been appreciated to the extent as that of the Mother; nevertheless, both play a very important role in the overall growth and development of a child. A child learns a lot of things in his life from father that nobody could ever teach. From the very childhood we start observing a lot of things from our father and inculcating them in our lives. There are an uncountable number of traits that we take from our father namely:\n

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• Fearlessness.
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• Ability to take challenges
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• Ability to Analyze
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• Being Responsible
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• Taking Care of Loved Ones in an affectionate manner
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• Respecting women Like in billions of cases, I easily envision the architect of my success is my father and my mother made it sure that happen by managing at micro and macro level.
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\nThose children who are being Fatherless:\n\nIt has been found in various studies, that children who do not have their fathers with them are more likely to get involved in social ills like alcohol and drugs and are more likely to be struggling, go through mental and physical issues, drop out of schools, fall in bad company and much more. These children are vulnerable to being the victims of various psychological disorders including fear, low self confidence, and in facing people in an assertive manner. These children most often feel to be out of the society, this feeling that they have been abandoned prevails for whole of their life if not treated. Here are a few of those social ills that may prevail in the life of a child all long.\n\nILL EFFECTS OF BEING FATHERLESS:\n

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• Studies have found that, fatherless children are more likely to commit suicide; depending on the scale of their age cycle. They are vulnerable to being the victims of high level of aggressive behavior.
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• The root cause of poverty is, not being educated or skilled. It is usual that children follow their father- by example- when it comes to learning so many things so as to learn and then earn. For those children, who are given no time to learn from their father, it is likely for them to become casual with their education and so struggle neve leave them.
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• There is a chance that Drug and Alcohol may enter into the lives of some fatherless children, in case they fail to hold their nerve.
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• The whopping number of young criminals out there in the Jails vouch that most of these children are brought up in an environment without father and vulnerable get involved in such activities.
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• Out of fear of not being recognized as normal as others, these fatherless children drop out of schools. They prefer abandoning schooling rather than being bullied by their fellow classmates. And, this becomes the reason they do not get proper education.
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\nConclusion:\n\nThere is nothing that can actually pay off for all the love and affection that a father bestows upon his children but yes there are things children can do to make their father feel happy and proud. That way he will feel that all of his investments be it emotional or financial is being paid off. On Father’s day let us pledge to be nice, gentle, cool, calm,courteous,composed, laborious, loving and that would be the greatest gift for any father.\n\nAs all of you are aware and know this from your very childhood that a “Father” work for the family and not himself. He sacrifices everything; never had the privilege to sit quietly at home, like all the family did, with mother as an exception. And he works [ed] 7 days a week -day in and night out to make our lives better. I salute every dad. Let’s celebrate Father’s Day this year with sheen and lucre to feel thankful for this beautiful gift of God called “Father”.\n\nWords fail me, to thank my father who is in scintillating heaven at the lotus feet of Almighty, along with my mum, still wishing the best for me and my children; after all we proudly carry his DNA and he is proud of being the father and grand father of us.\n\nLong live every Dad, his better half and his perennial investment of life- the children!!!!\n

WHEN you marry, make sure your mother\nand father are not neglected. When kids\nmarry, I have seen parents- in some casesmay\nbe unknowingly get neglected. The\nhands that helped you to walk your first\nsteps need help in the evening of their\nlife. Some parents are lucky, some are\nunfortunate enough that their kids are not\nwith them when they are bidding final adieu\nto this world

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